the tolerance is really up to you .. it depends on your model, your units, time step, what norm you are using, i.e. disp, unbalance, or a relative one, and of course what you would be happy with.
Thanks a lot for you guys replies. Then, how can we know what value is good for the analysis?
From the manual, the tolerance is an absolute value (i.e, it is not a ratio, for example, for the force criteria, we set tol=0.1 means tol=0.1 N (SI units) ), right?